Who led child-rapist and killer Joshua Komisarjevsky astray? It wasn’t Satan.

Would Jennifer Hawke-Petit and her daughters be alive if Joshua Komisarjevsky had been parented differently? Probably.

If you’ve heard of Joshua Komisarjevsky, chances are good it’s because he was recently convicted of killing Jennifer Hawke-Petit and her daughters, Michaela, 11, and Hayley, 17, in Cheshire, Connecticut, in 2007. He awaits a sentence of either life in prison or the death penalty for the crimes, which he committed with accomplice Steven Hayes. In addition to taking their lives and then setting the bodies on fire, Komisarjevsky also raped Michaela.

Komisarjevsky’s life story is a case study in how fears of Satanism and the occult can get in the way of seeking proper treatment for an obviously ill teenager. His parents and others had many chances to intervene, to save not only Komisarjevsky’s life but the lives of Hawke-Petit and her daughters.

The 31-year-old was adopted when he was 2 weeks old. Early photos show him with his mother, Jude, who is delighted by the boy in her lap. Later on, the Komisarjevskys took in foster children, and one of them — a 15-year-old named Scott — abused the other kids, including 5-year-old Joshua. Later on, Joshua turned this abuse on his sister, which his parents refused to report to the police.

By the time Joshua was in his teens, his psychological state was beginning to break down. He developed a close friendship with a man in his church. Also during this time, Joshua allegedly joined a “Satanic cult.” The church friend helped “rescue” him from a ritual held at someone’s home, but shortly afterward, Joshua said he began hearing voices and suffering night terrors. But neither his family nor his church friends sought outside help:

But the cult continued to have a negative effect on Komisarjevsky, according to testimony Thursday by Eric Perry, a staff supervisor at a Christian boys’ home called the Fold in Vermont in 1996.

Perry’s two weekly reports on Komisarjevsky were shown on the courtroom screen. “Having trouble sleeping,” Perry wrote. “He hears voices saying, ‘Kill yourself.’ He is seeing objects in his room that he believes are related to his prior inclusion in Satanic cults.”

Perry also wrote that prayer and reassurance Komisarjevsky was loved by God and the staff at the Fold “seems to be the only solution to his night terrors.”

Even if Joshua had been part of a Satanic group — and it’s not clear to me what was going on here — there’s no reason that such belonging would trigger a mental-health breakdown. Just like any religious organization, Satanism attracts a variety of people for a variety of reasons, including those with mental-health issues. It’s neither a cause or a cure for those issues.

As a teen, he kept bomb-making supplies in his room as well as razor blades, the latter for a planned suicide attempt.

Here is a boy who is obviously crying out for help. But his support network believed, for whatever reason, that prayer and faith were the answers to his problems. Obviously, they weren’t.

I’m not here to blame any particular faith on what happened to Komisarjevsky — or particularly to his victims. I think the problem lies with the type of people his parents were, not the faith or denomination they belonged to. I don’t think it’s a matter of whether or not they loved Joshua and his adopted/foster siblings. They had the heart to take these kids in. Beyond that, we know very little. What we do know is that Joshua was very sick, and we know that without treatment, this kind of sickness does not get better.

What happened to Hawke-Petit and her daughters was entirely preventable. It could have been prevented by Joshua Komisarjevsky’s parents, by his church elders, by others in his life. They made the wrong choices. Ultimately, the actions were Joshua’s — and for that reason he’s the right person to stand trial — but I doubt he would have committed these crimes without everything that came before.


4 responses to “Who led child-rapist and killer Joshua Komisarjevsky astray? It wasn’t Satan.

  1. “His support network believed, for whatever reason, that prayer and faith were the answers to his problems. Obviously, they weren’t. … Joshua was very sick, and we know that without treatment, this kind of sickness does not get better.”

    That “prayer and faith” did not ultimately lead to the desired results in this particular situation is obvious. But are you suggesting that they are never an appropriate option? Or that with “treatment” such people always “get better”? Anecdotal evidence strongly suggests that neither of these contentions is true.

    For instance, Joshua’s sister Naomi was also sexually abused by the same foster child. In addition, she was molested as well by her own brother. She was likewise raised in the same supposedly “strict, rigid evangelical” home (quite likely a gross exaggeration) as her brother. She likewise demonstrated symptoms of trauma from the sexual abuse, evidence by episodes of cutting. But she has since turned out to be a healthy, happy young woman. How? By psychotherapy? No, by spiritual means. She forgave her brother and embraced the spiritual teachings by which she was raised and there found healing and wholeness.

    Conversely, those who undertake psychotherapy do not always find in it the relief from pain and torment that they seek. Human beings are complex creatures and there are no simple answers to the complex issues that plague our psyches. To blame his parents’ faith and set forth psychotherapy and/or medication as the cure-all is a simplistic and unreasonable as the picture of that is being painted of his parents.

    • Hi Rex, thanks so much for commenting. Your remarks about Joshua’s sister are spot on. Yes, she grew up in similar circumstances but didn’t go on to become violent (so far as we know). But I do think that it sounds like Joshua also was contending with a predisposed mental illness. I’m not a psychiatrist so I can’t make a diagnosis, but isn’t one of the symptoms of schizophrenia “hearing voices?” A couple of other psychiatric illnesses also involve psychotic thinking, including some kinds of bipolar disorder. At any rate, I wasn’t suggesting that psychotherapy alone — or psychotherapy at all — would be the answer. Someone as ill as Joshua would also require medication to moderate his violent impulses. I’m not saying prayer doesn’t help. I’m saying prayer alone wasn’t enough. It’s like saying prayer is enough to make stomach cancer go away, or prayer is enough to heal a shattered leg. It just isn’t enough.

      • I believe some people are predisposed to maladaptive behavior. Just like the banking industry that rape (and ultimately destroy people) Satan has nothing to do with the situation. Some are evil only to the extent they desire and crave. If killing brings them pleasure, that is all that matters to them.


  2. its clear that you are against God’s ways and you seem to shove away prayer and God. The satanic stuff affected this guy. I don’t know why you defend satanism with this blog, you seem to be for it. God has ALL the answers and i dislike it when people blame God for their own actions. Its simple with God you have to seek His direction and counsel. Many people just think mentioning God’s name is a solution. God is not a witchdoctor or whatever who just responds to every request. God has laws and he is a just God. I believe so much in Jesus and the Holy Spirit. ALL good things come from God. The Devil or satan is a deceiver, he does many things un-noticed and makes people who believe they understand life think there is a logical explanation for his evil schemes. HELL is a place prepared for the devil, his demons and all who walk in disobedience to God.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s